I am going to be raw here. So, if you are easily offended by words and can’t deal with substance wrapped in vulgarity, move on. I get passionate at times and it requires a few F bombs to make my points. Sorry, but Fuck You if you can’t deal with it 🙂 I curse because I do actually care and I curse because I want to, which is a right I have earned after many years of hustling to be my own man. So again, Fuck You if you can’t deal because I am about to drop some teachable moments
I am really over the celebrating of mediocrity. I got called out for complaining about a fat chick on the cover of Sports Illustrated. Sorry if you can’t handle that I just said fat chick but it is truth. She is a Chick, which is a mildly derogatory term if you are uptight, and she is fat, not phat but actual f-a-t overweight fat. What I said is the same as calling me an old dude, which relatively speaking, I am both old and a man.
I also got called out for posting my frustration with people looking for a pity party on Facebook. I get that you are reaching out to not feel alone while in the struggle but the tone of so many is “thanks for being like me”, “I feel so much better being fucked up because you are fucked up too”?
FUCK people! When are we going to stand up and start behaving accordingly. You have 1 fucking life. You have only 1 at bat. You going to pray to get walked or are you going to swing for the fences? I don’t want to get on base, I want to fucking win, I want to be the hero in my own game. I have no idea where this baseball analogy came from but I am going with it because it is working for me… lol.
Honestly, it is not ok that you are depressed, fat, unmotivated, drunk, high, unhealthy, uneducated, reckless…. So many things that we keep finding excuses to make OK daily. Just because you found people as stupid as you does not make stupid OK. Who the fuck am I to say what is Ok or not. That was not a question, I am actually admitting that I am no authority to pass judgement, I am all opinion here. So, in my opinion, I don’t feel that life was meant to be lived in a mediocre cocoon of stupidity, waste, and gluttony. I also don’t feel that we need to live a monastic lifestyle. Enjoy your life but do your best to maximize it.
I am a Dad, this is why I care so much. I am also a coach which puts me in front of people daily I care a great deal about. How do I know I am a coach? It’s because I have never trained for 2nd place, I have never celebrated a loss, and I have never allowed someone I care about think it is OK to be a pussy and quit. Being strong is everything. Not simply lift a house over my head strong, but strength in conviction, motivation, and the ability to stay the course because you know you have too, not just because you want to.
I do not want my son to think it is ok to coast. I never want him to shoot for the inch in front of his face. I want my son to shoot for the fucking stars because that is when the struggle gets fun and life progresses. Fuck your couch. Fuck your games. Fuck you if you think breathing is living.
Exercise your body, your mind, and your soul. Learn, absorb, pay a fucking attention, and get over yourself. Invest your time and efforts into people and yourself. Focus on how you make your money more than how much you make. Don’t let anyone knock you off your path if you believe in it. Be fucking brave, be your fucking self, and be squeeze everything you can out of every moment because you never know which one will be your last.
None of what I said is possible if we keep celebrating mediocrity. We should put people worth aspiring to be, people that require sacrifice and commitment to achieve similar levels of success…. Being fat is not a worthy aspiration. Having sex on camera to be famous like Kim and Paris is not hard or worthy work. Start celebrating those that contribute instead of those that inspire inaction or consumption.
If you are fat but in the fight, you have my respect and help if you ask for it. If you are poor but working, keep fucking fighting! If you are anywhere, in any situation fighting to be better, be more… I am with you. The rest of you need to wake the fuck up before you take the eternal nap.
I said all of this with serious love in my heart for all of you. I believe in humanity. I know we all can be so much more than we are collectively allowing ourselves to be. Be strong and fight on!